EMDR Therapy in Denver • Online Across CO, NV & NH

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Be Heard. Feel Grounded. Take Back Control.

Therapy in Denver and online for adults, teens and couples. Ease anxiety, process trauma and build healthier relationships.

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Be Heard. Feel Grounded. Take Back Control.

Therapy in Denver and online for adults, teens and couples. Ease anxiety, process trauma and build healthier relationships.

Start With a Free Consultation

Send a Message

Individual Therapy

Trauma & EMDR Therapy

Life doesn't have to feel like a constant fight. Whether you're struggling with anxiety, depression, or feeling stuck, I'll help you understand what's holding you back, build practical tools, and create meaningful change at your own pace.

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Trauma therapy for women navigating anxiety, burnout, and life transitions in Denver.

Trauma & EMDR Therapy

Your past wounds shouldn't dictate your today. I use methods such as Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) therapy for PTSD to help your brain process stuck memories and relax your nervous system.

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Couples Therapy

Trauma & EMDR Therapy

Couples Therapy

Communication struggles, fertility challenges, and emotional disconnection can strain relationships. Together we'll navigate conflict, rebuild trust and connection, and move forward with greater understanding and confidence.

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Men’s therapy for anxiety, trauma, stress, and relationship challenges in Denver, Colorado.

Therapy for Men

Trauma & EMDR Therapy

Couples Therapy

Stress, emotional shutdown, and relationship struggles can leave you feeling disconnected and overwhelmed. I'll help you explore what's holding you back, build lasting confidence, and develop healthier ways to navigate life's challenges.

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About Steven Ayers Therapy

Since 2021, I have helped clients overcome anxiety, trauma, PTSD, depression, addiction, and relationship challenges through evidence-based therapy focused on lasting change. I help clients process the experiences that continue to shape their emotions, behaviors, and relationships. I integrate EMDR with Internal Family Systems Therapy (IFS), Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy (KAP) and Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) to meet each client’s unique needs.

Specialized Services for Adults, Couples and Teens

Anxiety & Depression
Relationship Issues
PTSD
Men's Mental Health
Fertility & Postpartum Mental Health

Why People Choose Steven Ayers Therapy

I create a warm, trauma-informed environment where you can show up as you are, feel understood without judgment, and receive care tailored to your individual goals and experiences. Together, we focus on healing the root causes of distress, building practical skills, and creating meaningful, lasting change.

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Licensed male therapist trauma therapy in Denver

Meet Steven Ayers, LCSW

I’m a certified EMDR therapist in Denver, Colorado. I help adults, couples and teens who are stuck in the same patterns in anxiety, relationships, or within themselves. Together, we look beneath the surface at trauma, attachment, and internal conflict so change actually holds. My goal is for you to feel more grounded, more self-led, and more steady in how you move through life.

As a male therapist offering trauma-informed therapy, I understand that past experiences with men can shape how safe therapy feels. You won’t have to filter yourself here—we’ll go at a pace that feels right for you and focus on what’s actually underneath the surface.

If you’re ready, or even just curious, you’re welcome to reach out.

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How does therapy work?

I know how hard it can be to find a therapist that's a good match. Send me a message, and I will contact you to set up a free 15 minute phone consultation to see if I am a good fit for you!

What to expect for the consultation:

This is an opportunity for you to interview me! Share some of your current challenges, what brings you to therapy, and how you’re hoping I will be able to help. I encourage you to ask any questions you might have and share any concerns about beginning a therapeutic relationship. At the end of our call, if you feel that I’m a good fit for your needs, we will book an intake session and I will send you a link to clinic policies and consent forms.

What to expect at the first session:

For the first few minutes, we’ll cover informed consent, how my practice works, and make sure all your questions are answered—no fine print surprises. The rest of the session is about actually getting to know you: your history, what’s going on in your life now, and what you want to change, where you want to start and establish treatment goals tailored specifically to you.

Follow up sessions:

This is where the work begins. We will work together to uncover where you would like to start, and from there, we’ll build a clear, individualized treatment plan so therapy doesn’t turn into the same “problem of the week” on repeat. And because life loves to throw curveballs, that plan is flexible—we’ll adjust it as you grow and things shift. Depending on what you prefer, I can take on a more structured approach, let you do most of the talking, or a balance of each. Usually, after the first couple of sessions my clients feel more comfortable and get into a groove that works for them.

What's your story for becoming a therapist?

I became a therapist because therapy worked. It worked for me, and it worked for people I love. I have seen what becomes possible when someone feels truly heard, not analyzed or fixed, just understood. I believe every person’s story deserves a safe place to be shared and taken seriously.

My own story began with trauma. I nearly died at birth, unable to feel the connection with my parents as I was alone in the NICU. This early experience shaped my struggles with attachment throughout my life. When I was three years old, my mother was diagnosed with stage IV breast cancer, reawakening the fear that I might lose her again. As I grew older, I felt increasing pressure to meet expectations of “being a man”—to stay strong, hold everything together, and take care of others—which made healing from something I never chose even more difficult. I know what it is like to carry pain you did not ask for and still be told to push through it.

What I learned through my own work is simple and honest. The right therapist makes all the difference. You do not just need someone who is only trained. You need someone who is trained and has done their own healing. The kind of therapist that is, confident with your care, grounded, present, and able to walk beside you without judgment.

At the heart of my work is a deep belief in the power of relationships. Within families, marriages, close partnerships, and the relationship we have with ourselves; our ability to connect shapes how safe and whole we feel. I am deeply committed to helping clients build relationships that are healthy, meaningful, and lasting. Supporting others in creating the connection they long for is not just my profession. It is my life’s work.

What is your education and unique passions?

I earned my graduate degree in Social Work from Syracuse University, where I focused on working with veterans with PTSD and developed a deep respect for the balance between evidence based practice, genuine human connection and deep rooted pain. That balance still guides how I show up in the therapy room today.

During that time, I also discovered an unexpected passion for elite competitive and service dog training. What started as a personal curiosity about behavior, trust, and communication grew into hands on work with both people and their dogs. Over the years, I have trained and worked with working line German Shepherds across the United States supporting veterans, including my own personal protection dog, Jax, whom I trained myself (yes he is the big black GSD that you see on my website!)

That experience sharpened my understanding of connection, leadership, and emotional regulation to a deeper level. These are the same principles at the core of effective therapy. Whether I am helping someone build trust with their dog or rebuild trust within themselves, the work comes back to the same values. Patience. Presence. Partnership.

What is the cost of therapy services?

I am not currently accepting insurance. Sessions are self-pay, starting at $175 per 50-minute session, with after-hours or emergency sessions billed at $200. I accept credit cards, HSA payments, Venmo, Zelle, PayPal, and cash. Payment is due at the time of service.

For clients wishing to use out-of-network benefits, I can provide a superbill to submit to their insurance provider. Reimbursement varies by plan and is not guaranteed, so I recommend verifying your benefits directly with your insurance provider before beginning therapy.

Some clients notice improvements early in treatment, while others may need more time to work through deeper or more complex concerns. Therapy is individualized, and the length of treatment and progress depend on each client's unique needs and goals.

What is your cancellation policy?

I require 24 hours notice if you cannot attend session. If you do not provide notice you will be charged for your scheduled time.

Will anybody know I am in therapy?

Therapy is confidential, and your privacy is a priority. Information shared in sessions is protected, with certain exceptions required or permitted by law, such as mandated reporting, serious safety concerns, or applicable legal orders. Outside these circumstances, I generally obtain your written authorization before coordinating care with others. We will review confidentiality and its limitations during the informed consent process.

Benefits of self pay?

Enhanced Privacy:

Paying privately means that you have greater control over your medical information.

No Insurance oversight :

Private pay avoids potential complications or restrictions that may arise when insurance companies dictate the number or type of sessions allowed.

Flexibility in provider choice:

You have the freedom to choose any therapist, regardless of whether they are in-network or out-of-network, broadening your options. This may be helpful if you are looking for more specialized care.

Out-of-Network Benefits:

If you would like to utilize your out-of-network benefits, you may request a superbill to submit to your insurance. I cannot guarantee that these superbills will be reimbursed. You can check with your insurance company what your out-of-network benefits are and your eligibility to be reimbursed for services.

What types of issues can Steven Ayers Therapy help me with?

Discover the wide range of challenges for adults, couples and teens. I’m equipped to address – from women, men and LGBTQ+ issues, anxiety, Veteran or first responder trauma, PTSD, addictions, panic attacks, OCD, performance anxiety, intimacy issues, infertility and postpartum depression, grief or loss, childhood abuse and neglect, burnout/stress management, depression, personality disorders, processing emotional avoidance and shutdown and more. Whether you're navigating everyday stress or more complex emotional challenges, we'll work together to determine whether my approach is the right fit for your needs and goals. I have helped hundreds of clients with my proven methods (IFS, EMDR, DBT, KAP) helping them overcome these issues and move towards a more fulfilling way of living. Book now and start the path to a better life!

What if I don't live in Colorado?

I offer virtual counseling for residents throughout Colorado, Nevada, and New Hampshire using HIPAA-compliant software.

How often should I attend therapy sessions with Steven Ayers Therapy?

For new clients, I typically recommend starting with weekly or every-other-week sessions to build momentum and support consistent progress. Some clients notice meaningful shifts early in therapy, while deeper or more complex concerns may benefit from longer-term work. Session frequency, results, and overall treatment length vary based on each client’s needs and goals.

Not Ready to Book Yet? Let’s Talk First

Questions about cost, what type of therapy might be right for you, or whether I’m a good fit for what you’re looking for? Send me a message. I’ll respond within one business day.

Location & Contact Information

4100 E Mississippi Ave suite 400, Denver, CO, USA

Monday–Thursday | 9:00 AM–7:00 PM (MT) Steven@stevenayerstherapy.com (720) 506-1551 In-person therapy in Denver and online therapy available across Colorado, Nevada, and New Hampshire.

Be Heard. Feel Grounded. Take Back Control.

Be Heard. Feel Grounded. Take Back Control.

Real Support for Real-Life Challenges

Therapy Services to Help You Move Forward

Individual Therapy

Trauma & EMDR Therapy

Trauma & EMDR Therapy

Trauma & EMDR Therapy

Trauma & EMDR Therapy

Trauma & EMDR Therapy

Couples Therapy

Trauma & EMDR Therapy

Couples Therapy

Therapy for Men

Trauma & EMDR Therapy

Couples Therapy

You Don’t Have to Keep Holding It Together Alone.

About Steven Ayers Therapy

Meet Steven Ayers, LCSW

Anxiety, Trauma & Relationship Therapy in Denver & Online

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